Wednesday, September 16, 2009

What's cooking Wednesday...

I have come to love Turkish food. The flavors are intense and robust, the food is rich yet doesn't leave you feeling like you gained a whole person in completing the meal. In the Turkish culture, cooking is an art...and art I have struggled to come close to mastering. However, finally learning that cooking everything on HI is not better and will not make dinner ready faster, has helped. So, I have been forcing myself to slow down in the kitchen...to appreciate and savor the food that I am preparing. I have been trying to incorporate more and more traditional Turkish recipes into our dinner menus. Like I said, I love the food...and I know that it is something nice I can do for Ilker. He never complains about my cooking, but he does get a little more excited when he sees I am preparing a Turkish dish (except if I am preparing Chili, that is winning in the faves right now)

Aside from loving the taste of the food...I love all of the colors and textures. The ingredients are fresh, and the dishes almost always create a beautiful presentation on the plate. I have been inspired to photograph this "new" food as I prepare it. For myself, because I am drawn to its beauty, but also to share with you guys. I have decided to post a pic and recipe for one dish a week....and call it What's Cooking Wednesday.

Tonight is Eggplant Bulgar Pilaf

and the Recipe is:

2 cups of bulgur (I chose to use fine bulgur, but it'll be great with coarse bulgur, too)
3 1/2-4 cups of water
1 big American eggplant or 2 regular size ones, peeled in stripes and diced
4 tomatoes, diced
1 onion, chopped finely
2 banana peppers, chopped
1 red pepper, chopped
2 tbsp pine nuts
1 tbsp currants
2 tbsp olive oil
1/2 bunch flat leaf parsley, chopped
salt & pepper

-Brush olive oil on a shallow oven pan (use aluminum foil to avoid a mess) , put diced eggplant on it, and bake for 20-25 minutes at 375F.
-Heat 2 tbsp olive oil in a pot (it's easier to cook bulgur with non-stick pots). Add onions and stir for a couple of minutes. Add pine nuts, red and green peppers, and currants. Stir until peppers are cooked and nuts are golden brown.
-Add diced tomato and cook for 4-5 minutes.
-Add bulgur, stir constantly for a couple of minutes.
-Add water. Start with 3 1/2 cups of water. Cover and cook on low-medium until bulgur soaks water--this will take approximately 20-25 minutes. Some bulgur would be fine with a bulgur to water ratio of 1 to 1 1/2, some with 1 to 2. So check if the bulgur is cooked; if not add the rest of the water. Cover and cook on low.
-After you turn it off, cover the top of the pot with a clean kitchen towel or a paper towel. Put the lid back on and let rest for 10 minutes.
-Fluff the pilaf with a serving fork. Add eggplant and parsley. Mix well and serve

from Almost Turkish Recipes, my new favorite blog

as if I needed one more hobby...

I have to admit two things. 1) I haven't been terribly motivated lately to work on any wedding related projects. 2) I have started to have weird/nightmarish dreams that revolve around the idea of Ilker and I getting married in a mass of chaos where none of our wedding projects (ie even decorations) are finished. After telling Ilker about my weird/nightmarish dreams, we decided that I definitely had some anxiety about getting stuff done for the wedding, and that it was time to buckle down and start crossing some things off of our list!

While I'm not planning to divulge any particulars, I will say that a few of our projects involve some easy sewing. While, I am not a fab seamstress, Ilker actually is. Well I guess he would be a seamstir? Anyway, after a lot of deliberation, research, and advice (thanks Mimi!) this weekend we bought a sewing machine. I have always wanted one (cough mom&dad cough cough) and think that I might be really good at it. :)

I know I probably don't need another hobby, but I feel like this is at least a hobby that can also be useful! Who knows, maybe I will be good enough to start making my own clothes....

So without further ado...the newest addition to our household....Now if I can just kick this cold in the butt...and feel well enough to start playing with it. I'll keep you posted on my progress...thank god this came with an instructional DVD :)

Monday, September 14, 2009

I need a new 'do

My hair is long and feels lifeless. For those of you that know me, you know that I L-O-V-E to change my look, namely getting new hair styles. This affinity for constant change means that my hair is rarely long. However, with my upcoming nuptials (less than 4 months people!!!!) I have been trying to keep my hair long.

This has been a challenge. I feel blah, my hair is always pulled back. It has no style, and I never put forth the effort to fix it. This got me thinking....is it that important to me to have long hair for ONE day? So important that I want ugly hair for every remaining day leading up to that ONE day? The answer: no.

So, with my upcoming trip home to the Big D, where my amazing hair stylist sister can work magical wonders with my hair, I have been brainstorming the change. And the verdict: I LOVE LOVE LOVE Ginnifer Goodwin's hair.


It is fun, and cute, and sassy...which let's face it...is totally me :) Now, I realize that she has a cute round face, and my face is long. Which means this 'do may not do on me...but I really like the general idea.

And for an added bonus, I found this pic of Renee from Chicago, and I'm thinking this could work as a new wedding hair style...which would totally fit into our vintage theme.

would love some opinions.....

Sunday, August 23, 2009

The end of Day 3

and this is not as hard as I thought it would be :)

Sure I have my ups and downs. I am so thirsty throughout the day. And there are moments where I am overcome with hunger and feel myself getting grumpy, but when that happens I take a deep breath and remember why I am doing this. And I am so glad that I am doing this. It is an amazing thing, to exhibit such control over your mind and body. Almost exhilarating.

I have added to my rules of Ramadan, that I am trying to be a bit more selfless during this time. Meaning that I am trying to take care of Ilker and the house a bit more, even though it requires added energy, and trying to help out at work and focus less on myself and what I am going through and focus more on how I can help others. It is also, not always easy, but is so satisfying.

I must admit that I am not so sure that I would be so successful at this without Ilker's support. He has been amazing, cheering me on, keeping me distracted during the tough hours. Even just knowing that I have his support has helped tremendously when my resolve starts to waver. This has added such a wonderful, new element to our relationship as we support each other, and endure this together.

Well, its getting late....we eat breakfast or Sahur at 3:00AM, and I need to go prepare my oatmeal before going to bed.

Goodnight!

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Tomorrow marks the start of Ramadan, and I have decided to observe this holiday and ritual with Ilker this year...and kind of keep a diary of my experience on here :)

So to start, I thought I would offer a brief explanation of what Ramadan is and what it means. Ramadan represents the month that Muslims believe Allah revealed the first verses of the Qur'an. During this month, Muslims fast. This means that they do not eat or drink (including water) during the daylight hours. Fasting serves many purposes. It serves to make Muslims more empathetic toward the poor-to have a greater understanding of what it means to be in need of the basic fundamentals for living. It also gives them an opportunity to practice controlling the body and the mind, and cleanses both. Fasting allows is a demonstration of their religious devotion.

For me, I believe participating in this sacred ritual together will strengthen mine and the HTB's relationship. It will allow me to really show him my level of commitment and devotion to our relationship, and understanding all facets of it on every level. Personally, I believe this will be a good challenge for my mind, body, and soul. To commit to something and test my personal limits. I have been pre-fasting for three days, and while it hasnt been easy, it also hasnt been impossible. I am looking forward to seeing how my mind/body can handle this, and to see the changes that will be made. I also plan to use this time to do a lot of introspection and "soul searching"...and to also really focus on expanding my knowledge of Islam, the Turkish culture, and most importantly the language.

So, among other goings ons in our life, I will try to keep an update/diary of my adjusting to this challenge...as well as my "turkish lesson" progress :)

Wish me luck! and now I am off to prep the kitchen for our 3:30 AM breakfast before fasting begins!

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

I received my first vintage Pyrex in the mail yesterday! It is going to look so perfect in our new kitchen! It is the bluebird design and it is fab!
you love Ilker's contribution, dont you :)

Saturday, August 15, 2009

you know I like my chicken fried...

My 15 year old cousin, Harper performed in Dallas a couple of weeks ago! She is amazing! She uploaded her performance to youtube, and this morning I listened/watched her set. This song made me a little homesick...

i want to fly away....


so jet blue has this amazing promotion right now...and if we had an extra $1200 lying around right now...then we would be ALL OVER THIS! But alas, we are moving, getting married, and honeymooning in Turkey...so there is not extra $1200. Still...if you have been bitten by the travel bug (and do have $600 to spend) you should TOTALLY check this out...jetblue is selling "All You Can Jet" tickets for $599. This means that you can travel anywhere you want, as many times as you want from Sept 8 to Oct 8. It's brilliant I tell you :)

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

i think i found something to start collecting...

really, as if i needed to become obsessed with something else...however, last night i was reading a fab design blog DarlingDexter and she has a vintage pyrex collection. it is adorable. as i was cursing our lack of dishes/bakeware/anything in our kitchen last night while making dinner (i got rid of most of my kitchen stuff before moving up here, and have to replenish it) i thought these would make a fab item in our new kitchen. and would look especially lovely with the chandelier i am lusting after, and hope to recreate on my own.

i mean how perfect is this, displayed out in the open and everything!?


from here

a quick collection i found while perusing ebay....dang! if only shipping wasnt so expensive. i think i will be dragging Ilker to go thrift shopping again this weekend :)


opps...going to be late for work again!

Friday, August 7, 2009

A sneak peek...

I remembered the photos of our new apartment that were on the housing website. Below is a sneak peek of our future living room!!! Look at those gorgeous floors...and all that light!!!!

Eekk...I can't wait. The end of the month cannot come quick enough for us! Especially since we have gotten some REALLY noisy upstairs neighbors who appear to stalk the floor in heels and occasionally wear rollerskates and re arrange their furniture at any hour of the day. Fun stuff!

Thursday, August 6, 2009

OMG

almost forgot that my baby sister is turning 21 today!! Happy Happy Birthday Caroline!!!!!!
Also...everyone think happy, positive thoughts for Morgan who has an awesome job interview today!

Love you two ladies :)
OMG! Just found these bowls on etsy (my new FAVE place to shop!) How perfect would these look with my peacock dishes?! hmmm....

the bowls...from here

and my peacock plates (from some of my most awesomest fam!)
both from here

oops! its getting late...enough "shopping" online for things I can't afford right now...must get another cup of coffee and finish getting ready for work!

SHOES SHOES SHOES....

I have scheduled my first dress fitting for the last weekend in September....and then I realized that only gives me barely two months to find my wedding shoes. I have always (at least for as long as I can remember) wanted to wear a funky colored shoe under my dress. Recently I decided to wear Sapphire Blue shoes because that is Ilker's fave color :) However, the quest for finding the "perfect" blue shoes is turning out to be quite difficult.

If money were no problem...these would the THEM
from here

But seeing as how they are $335 (WHOA!) and almost 5" heels... these are obviously NOT the ones. But aren't they gorgeous?! le sigh....

So back to the search and I am also back to the drawing board. Perhaps not blue...maybe red, or pink, or green?? hmm decisions decisions.

So, I am asking for some help (if anyone actually reads this) in looking for awesomely cute blue shoes, with a 3" heel or less, that are less than $100. PS...if you find something in a different "fun" color...do tell :)

Thursday, July 30, 2009

some updates...

I feel like I should post some updates, as life has been changing....in lots of good ways :)

First, I got a new job (YAY!!!)
Working at David's Bridal was a good experience to remind me that being a Corporate Office Drone was really not that bad :) Working with the brides was fun, some days it was a blast! And for the most part I LOVED LOVED LOVED that part of my job. Unfortunately the people that I worked with were not so great...and negated any positives I could find in working there.
NOW I am working at a campus bookstore as the textbook coordinator. and I LOVE it. and seriously, I cant remember ever loving a job. At times it is a little monotonous and perhaps boring, but my boss is great, we have intelligent conversations. and oh ya, we listen to NPR and watch the Food Network all day. Oh ya, and did i mention that I also get to wear jeans??!!

Also, I have started school.
I am attending the University of Phoenix online and getting my Masters in Education Curriculum and Instruction. I want to teach ESL...with hopes of eventually helping adults learn English. I am really excited about the possibilities, and really excited about having to actually think and use my brain, and be challenged. But I must tell you, that it has been quite difficult getting back into the swing of being a student. I have a whole new level of respect for Ilker, who had to relearn how to be a student while remembering and rememorizing formulas and complicated math and science things....YUCK! So it has been a challenge, but it has been a good one. So, I am pretty glad that I took this leap...and I am really grateful for my super supportive HTB (husband to be) who encouraged me, supported me, and gave me that push that actually made me do this....thanks hon!

Third, I may become a wedding photographer.
This Sat I am going out to second shoot with our wedding photographer....and discuss options of perhaps working with her through the end of the season. I am still not sure how I feel about wedding photography...except that I know I have become obsessed with it and that I am excited to actually be using my camera again. Wish me luck...its been a long time since I had to shoot under pressure :)

I believe that about sums it up for now. We are moving in a month, and SUPER excited. Cant wait to post pics. And hopefully, I will have some more wedding details soon!

goodnight!

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

i HEART this dress...

I was looking for a peacock printed dress to wear to my bridal shower. While perusing the Google results...I found this one. WOW...i need this in my life, oh if only money were no object...

trying to start new habits....

So this morning I managed to drag my weary butt out of bed and do 30 minutes of yoga, before showering and now I am enjoying my first cup of coffee! The goal is to do this every morning. I have had a serious lack of energy lately....and it is kind of annoying. So, I have decided to do a little healthy overhaul on my life :) Starting with morning yoga...and updating my blog in the AM as I am sipping on my coffee (hopefully, this will also mean that I actually regularly update here).

So exciting Wedding News: Last night we FINALLY finished our Save the Dates, and I think they are ADORABLE. While I realize that I am quite a bit biased....I really do believe that they are quite clever. I haven't seen anything like them, and let me tell you I have perused some wedding blogs :) They will go out in the mail today, and then I will post pics on here (on the off chance there is someone out there reading this that I am not closely connected to)

Well, I am off to go catch up on my blog reading, and then get ready for work. For the day, I leave you with this pic...which as of right now is THE wedding day 'do.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

This was my FAVE pic...and it wouldnt let me post it on my last post....


one of the pretty views :)

Obviously...I need to start going to the gym

This past weekend we went to Buttermilk Falls in Itahca, NY with some friends. The weather was lovely...80 and overcast, with a slight breeze. At the bottom of the trail was a watering hole, for swimming. I was really bummed that I didnt bring a swimsuit. I knew there was a place to swim, but assumed it was mid-hike and thought that if I was hot enough I would do what we do in the south and jump in fully clothed. Well, apparently "up here" they dont do that. So I had to settle for watching from the side..but next time, I WILL be jumping off that diving board!!

The hike was steep, and included something 200 stairs (and Im only slightly exaggerating) About halfway up the trail, I had to sit down and rest for like 30 minutes...I swear I thought I was going to die. I know Ilker really loves me when he just sat with me...not making me feel like an idiot for being so out of shape, until I was ready to continue on. The sites to come were beautiful, and were so worth the steps! It was a perfect day spent with friends...cant wait until our next trip :)

However...I realize that I need to get back into shape...so this weekend starts the getting in shape for our wedding extravaganza! Wish me luck :)












Wednesday, July 15, 2009

I'm back...I swear

Ok so I have been super absent, but now I have a new job and a new iPhone and most probaly a new place to live. So I'm back. And let me just mention that I love my hubby to be, who bought me my iPhone for a wedding gift...oh and I bought him one too I am definitely my fathers daughter!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

A new kind of "date" night

Our kitchen is small...and really by small, I mean that it may perhaps be one of the smallest kitchens I have ever seen. It is also completely closed off from the rest of our apartment, which makes communicating with each other while cooking dinner pretty much impossible. So usually, while I am cooking dinner, Ilker is studying, and we stay separate until dinner is ready and it is time to eat.

On Sunday night, Ilker surprised me. When I went in to start dinner, he came into the kitchen with me, and said "I know it will be tight, but tonight let's cook together" So, even though we were crammed in there, we cooked dinner together (good thing we like each other!) It was so nice. We started with the recipe I had concocted in my head, and then together, we tweaked it along the way. Saturday morning Ilker went to the Farmer's Market, so we started adding all kinds of fresh veggies to the dinner...and it was AMAZING! I mean, it was one of the best dinners I have had in a long time! We are in the process of naming our culinary invention...once properly named, I will post the recipe. I took some pics of our evening to share.

Ilker putting the finishing spices on the top



Our beautiful entree, before baking



Going into the oven...



While the chicken was cooking in the oven, we decided to also fix some green beans. (and I actually DID have a second helping!) They were also awesome! And I thought they looked pretty as well!



And finally...our finished entree



This was a fun twist on staying home, and dining in. What was really so much fun was that we mixed our culinary tastes. My American tendencies, with his Turkish tendencies, and created a whole new hybrid of the two... perhaps a sign of things to come ;) We will definitely be doing this again, and I will make sure to update with our next creation. Hopefully, it two will be a success!!

xoxo

Thursday, April 9, 2009

i heart my "new" luck

I am a HUGE believer in signs. Not just the signs that you see on the side of the road...but life signs. Signs that seem to come from some higher being, telling you that you are making the right OR wrong decision. Sometimes, I feel about like Salma Hayek and her obsession with signs in Fool Rush In (especially that scene at the airport where Alex sees the little girl, and he KNOWS he has to go to Mexico to find her....)

Anyway, I digress. So I am a big believer in signs. And lately, if I ever doubted the recent decisions I have made in my life, the signs are telling me YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!! My notoriously bad luck seems to have turned around (knock on wood) and things are all working out for me (and Ilker, but mostly it is with things on my side of the relationship)

Today I finished my second day working at David's Bridal, and man did I forget how hard it was to work in retail. But...this means that within the 7 weeks that I have lived here...I have gotten engaged, booked an awesome reception venue, bought my wedding dress, GOTTEN A JOB, dealt with transferring my car to NY without too many added expenses, decided on Save the Date invited and wedding favors...and made great strides in other wedding planning. Oh yes, and have gotten closer to picking out my veil.

So yes people, I am once again employed, and I think I might actually like it. It's going to be hard...but I tell you what-lugging wedding dresses all day long will definitely get me closer to getting my arms in more "wedding dress" shape. Which is an added bonus :)

Here's hoping the good signs keep coming :)

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

i heart our new bedding

It was fate...after weeks and weeks of searching for "perfect" bedding. Bedding that we agreed on, that would coordinate with the rest of our house, and that wasn't too girly; and finally WE FOUND IT! It was like it was made for us...it's blue (Ilker's fave color) and brown, gorgeous, and the name is Peacock Alley!

So without further delay...the before pictures of our "bedroom"




And...the after





Im so excited with how it turned out! Our apartment is starting to feel like a home, and starting to reflect our personalities. And speaking of our home....here are some pictures of the other two members of our family...couldn't resist.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

i heart blogging?

When I decided to pack my bags and make the big move to Syracuse, I realized how many things I shared with my friends and family. Not only, how much I shared with them, but how much I depended on their feedback as well. So, as I was saying my goodbyes, I promised many of my friends that I would start a blog...keeping them up to date with what I was reading, wearing, cooking for dinner, and anything else in between. After getting here, and unpacking my computer, I began the process of creating my blog. I spent weeks coming up with the perfect name, and then more weeks coming up with the perfect layout-becoming so wrapped up in other people's blogs that I forgot about my own.

So, after a few days (ok weeks) of struggling with what to write, how to start, and blah blah blah...I am officially starting my blog.

Whew...now that that is over with...look forward to posts full of cool internet finds, fashion, musings, and wedding stuff. Thats right...not only am I officially starting my blog...I am also officially engaged to the most wonderful man in the whole world. :)

Let the fun begin!